I was bored and ran ANTS against the release build of the demo code, the only thing I did was uncomment the 'stress test' demo. I killed it after a couple minutes because it didn't show me the screen - I haven't tried profiling an XNA app yet so that may be normal.
(You might need to paste this into Excel to get it looking right, or just email me at 
MYBEPUGAMESUSERNAME@gmail.com and I'll send you the HTML report)
Namespace	Method name	Time (sec.)	Time with children (sec.)	Hit count	Source file
BEPUphysicsDemos	Program.Main(string[] args)	115.6038	479.8484	1	Program.cs
BEPUphysicsDemos	Demos..ctor()	3.3147	3.3147	1	Demos.cs
BEPUphysics	Controller..cctor()	0.0012	0.0012	1	
BEPUphysicsDemos	Demos.Initialize()	0.008	24.3596	1	Demos.cs
BEPUphysics	Space..ctor()	0	0	1	
BEPUphysics	PrimitiveToolbox.constructHexahedronStaticConvexPolyhedron(float width, float height, float length, Vector3 position)	0.0037	0.147	1	
BEPUphysics	PrimitiveToolbox.constructHexahedronStaticConvexPolyhedron(Vector3 p1, Vector3 p2, Vector3 p3, Vector3 p4, Vector3 p5, Vector3 p6, Vector3 p7, Vector3 p8)	0.002	0.1433	1	
BEPUphysics	StaticConvexPolyhedron..ctor(List<PolyhedronTriangle> tris)	0.0065	0.1402	1	
BEPUphysics	StaticConvexPolyhedron.initialize()	0.0315	0.1318	1	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox..cctor()	0	0	1	
BEPUphysicsDemos	Demos.LoadGraphicsContent(bool loadAllContent)	0	0	1	Demos.cs
BEPUphysicsDemos	Demos.Update(GameTime gameTime)	0.046	336.569	1	Demos.cs
BEPUphysics	Space.update(GameTime gameTime)	0.266	336.523	1	
BEPUphysics	Space.broadPhase()	0.1333	0.1528	1	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere..ctor(Vector3 pos, float rad, float m)	0.0009	0.0034	6	
BEPUphysics	Sphere..ctor()	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.initialize()	0.0001	0.0024	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.set_linearMomentum(Vector3 value)	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	DisplaySphere..ctor(Sphere aSphere, GraphicsDeviceManager graphics)	0.0182	0.0456	6	
BEPUphysics	DisplaySphere.initializeEffect()	0.0262	0.0262	6	
BEPUphysics	DisplaySphere.initializeShape()	0.0012	0.0012	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.applyForces(float wait, float timeScale)	0.0026	0.0026	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.get_forces()	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.getTotalForce()	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.getTotalTorque()	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.set_linearVelocityBias(Vector3 value)	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.set_angularVelocityBias(Vector3 value)	0	0	6	
BEPUphysics	PhysSphere.get_mass()	0	0	12	
BEPUphysics	Sphere.getExtremePoints(Vector3 d, out Vector3 min, out Vector3 max)	0.0007	0.002	18	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointsBetweenObjects(Entity objA, Entity objB, Controller controller, out Vector3 closestA, out Vector3 closestB)	0.0063	0.0216	20	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnSegmentToPoint(List<Vector3> q, int i, int j, Vector3 p, out List<int> subsimplex, out List<float> baryCoords)	0	0	20	
BEPUphysics	Contact..ctor(Vector3 pos, Vector3 norm, Entity collider, Entity collidee, float depth)	0	0	20	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnTetrahedronToPoint(Vector3 a, Vector3 b, Vector3 c, Vector3 d, Vector3 p, out List<Vector3> subsimplex)	0.0006	0.0007	21	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnSegmentToPoint(Vector3 a, Vector3 b, Vector3 p, out List<Vector3> subsimplex)	0	0	25	
BEPUphysics	Controller.updateCollision()	0.0098	336.0983	26	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.areObjectsColliding(Entity objA, Entity objB, Controller controller)	0.0036	336.0669	26	
BEPUphysics	Sphere.getExtremePoint(Vector3 d)	0.0013	0.0013	36	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getBarycenter(List<Vector3> q, List<float> baryCoords)	0	0	40	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getPointProjectedOnPlane(Vector3 point, Vector3 normal, Vector3 pointOnPlane)	0	0	40	
BEPUphysics	Controller.get_simplexA()	0	0	46	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnTriangleToPoint(Vector3 a, Vector3 b, Vector3 c, Vector3 p, out List<Vector3> subsimplex)	0.0001	0.0001	49	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnTetrahedronToPoint(List<Vector3> tetrahedron, Vector3 p, out List<int> subsimplex, out List<float> baryCoords)	0.0002	0.0009	59	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findMinkowskiDifferenceExtremePoint(Entity a, Entity b, Vector3 axis)	0.0003	336.0555	79	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findPointOfMinimumNorm(List<Vector3> q, out List<Vector3> subsimplex)	0.0069	0.0077	99	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findPointOfMinimumNorm(List<Vector3> q, out List<int> subsimplex, out List<float> baryCoords)	0.0131	0.0141	120	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.getClosestPointOnTriangleToPoint(List<Vector3> q, int i, int j, int k, Vector3 p, out List<int> subsimplex, out List<float> baryCoords)	0.0006	0.0006	198	
BEPUphysics	PrimitiveToolbox.constructCubePhysConvexPolyhedron(float width, Vector3 position, float mass)	0.0036	23.3093	210	
BEPUphysics	PrimitiveToolbox.constructHexahedronPhysConvexPolyhedron(Vector3 p1, Vector3 p2, Vector3 p3, Vector3 p4, Vector3 p5, Vector3 p6, Vector3 p7, Vector3 p8, float mass)	0.0029	23.3057	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron..ctor(List<PolyhedronTriangle> tris, float m)	0.278	23.2942	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.initialize()	4.9419	23.0159	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.applyForces(float wait, float timeScale)	0.0032	0.0033	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.get_forces()	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.getTotalForce()	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.get_mass()	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.getTotalTorque()	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.set_linearVelocityBias(Vector3 value)	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	PhysConvexPolyhedron.set_angularVelocityBias(Vector3 value)	0	0	210	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron..ctor()	0.0014	0.0022	211	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.findVertices()	0.0085	0.0173	211	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.findEdges()	0.064	0.1384	211	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.findNormals()	0.0022	0.0077	211	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.calibrateNormals()	0.0014	0.0059	211	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.findConvexPolyhedronGeometry()	0.0075	0.0345	211	
BEPUphysics	DisplayPolyhedron..ctor(ConvexPolyhedron body, GraphicsDeviceManager graphics)	0.0102	0.8456	211	
BEPUphysics	DisplayPolyhedron.initializeEffect()	0.8211	0.8211	211	
BEPUphysics	DisplayPolyhedron.initializeShape()	0.0043	0.0143	211	
BEPUphysics	Entity..ctor()	0.0008	0.0008	217	
BEPUphysics	Entity.findBoundingBox()	0.0014	0.0065	217	
BEPUphysics	Space.addEntity(Entity entity)	0.0006	0.0006	217	
BEPUphysics	Entity.getPosition()	0	0	252	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.arePointsOnOppositeSidesOfPlane(Vector3 o, Vector3 p, Vector3 a, Vector3 b, Vector3 c)	0.0002	0.0002	320	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.getExtremePoint(Vector3 d)	0.0005	336.0564	397	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findExtremePoint(ConvexPolyhedron body, Vector3 axis)	303.2014	336.0559	397	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findExtremePoint(ConvexPolyhedron body, Vector3 axis, Vertex guess)	25.4689	32.8545	397	
BEPUphysics	ConvexPolyhedron.getExtremePoints(Vector3 d, out Vector3 min, out Vector3 max)	0.001	0.0031	633	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.findInterval(ConvexPolyhedron body, Vector3 axis, out float min, out float max, out Vertex minVertex, out Vertex maxVertex)	0.0018	0.002	633	
BEPUphysics	Controller..ctor(Entity a, Entity b)	0.0005	0.0005	1108	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.reverseNormal()	0.0001	0.0012	1266	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.set_owner(ConvexPolyhedron value)	0.0001	0.0001	1688	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.move(Vector3 v)	0.0002	0.0002	1688	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.set_owner(ConvexPolyhedron value)	0.0001	0.0001	2532	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.calibrateNormal(Vector3 p)	0.0013	0.0026	2532	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.clone(PolyhedronTriangle t)	0.0013	0.0202	2532	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.set_normal(Vector3 value)	0.0001	0.0001	2532	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.move(Vector3 v)	0.0016	0.0023	2532	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.findNormal()	0.0037	0.0044	3376	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.findNormal()	0.0033	0.004	3798	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle..ctor(Vertex a, Vertex b, Vertex c)	0.0028	0.0156	5064	
BEPUphysics	Edge..ctor(Vertex va, Vertex vb)	0.0004	0.0004	7596	
BEPUphysics	Edge.set_triangleA(PolyhedronTriangle value)	0.0003	0.0003	7596	
BEPUphysics	Edge.set_triangleB(PolyhedronTriangle value)	0.0003	0.0003	7596	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.addEdge(Edge edge)	0.006	0.0095	7596	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.set_position(Vector3 value)	0.0003	0.0003	7596	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.clone(Vertex v)	0.0034	0.0164	9284	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.set_normal(Vector3 value)	0.0004	0.0004	9284	
BEPUphysics	Vertex..ctor(Vector3 pos)	0.0018	0.0018	10972	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.addTriangle(PolyhedronTriangle triangle)	0.0127	0.0127	15192	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.get_normal()	0.0161	0.0195	16880	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.Equals(object obj)	0.0069	0.0083	32072	
BEPUphysics	Edge.set_owner(ConvexPolyhedron value)	0.002	0.002	45576	
BEPUphysics	Edge.get_endpointB()	0.0021	0.0021	60571	
BEPUphysics	Edge.get_triangleB()	0.0023	0.0023	64355	
BEPUphysics	Edge.get_triangleA()	0.0059	0.0059	168378	
BEPUphysics	Edge.Equals(object obj)	0.0325	0.049	211422	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.get_edges()	0.0073	0.0073	211844	
BEPUphysics	Controller.Equals(object o)	0.019	0.019	306916	
BEPUphysics	Toolbox.isPointWithinConvexPolyhedron(Vector3 p, ConvexPolyhedron body)	12.633	17.5318	3296875	
BEPUphysics	Entity.set_position(Vector3 value)	0.1447	0.1447	3297303	
BEPUphysics	Entity.get_position()	0.2905	0.2905	6590405	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.get_edges()	0.4875	0.4875	13735965	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.get_vertices()	1.4153	1.4153	39611452	
BEPUphysics	PolyhedronTriangle.get_normal()	1.7231	1.7231	39658716	
BEPUphysics	Vertex.get_position()	3.6184	3.6184	80854983	
BEPUphysics	Edge.get_endpointA()	5.0643	5.0643	137774320